Being a Single woman in a country where marriage is a lifetime celebration is a huge setback . Marriage in India is considered to be a feather in your cap and producing a son just elevates your social position . You are mentally trained from childhood that u have to get married ... u need to study to get a job and status so that u can get a top partner ... LOVE .. COMPATIBILITY HAS GOT NO PLACE IN ALL THIS ...
Just when u cross 21 ... its a massive hunt ( just like CIA hunting for a fugitive) Every prospective fugitive 10 generation history is sort and discussed ... and finally with an eagle eye the fugitive is caught and tangled up ...
BUT THEN WHAT ABOUT THE SINGLETON ?? THEY ARE looked up as redheaded cocks
Every occasion and meeting ... you are asked the question when r u getting married ???
Stranger ( u have just met and exchanged) just ... hello how are you ? AND WITHIN SECONDS ...... u r asked the question arreee why r u not married ? no boyfriend ? u should get married ... its important to get married .. !!! One is automatically categorised as fiercely independent , ambitious , rigid and uncompromising , commitment phobic ... if one is not married .. soo many labels for one word !
Reallyyy ! my singleton is a global issue ! do I ask u why are u married ? why did u have babies ? why did u divorce when we just meet ... then who the hell has given u the right to ask me about my single status ...
U meet a guy on tinder .. u meet a guy/ girl in a party , puja etc etc ... one question why are u not married ?? state it ! earlier I just did not know the answer ... but lately I have found the reply ... bcos I am reducing global population .. and sometimes just to shock I like having multiple partners ... hah ha haha its a kodak moment .. the shocked expression of the other person ...
I have my moments of loneliness but don't we all .. but I Am glad that I am not in a relationship which is stale and painful ..
I enjoy my routine that I have created for my self .. but I do have ... a secret desire ... A desire to be loved and cherished ... BUT THEN DON'T WE ALL ... SO why being SINGLE is DIFFERENT ?
Some heart wrenching stories to share
http://www.storypick.com/heart-wrenching-story/
http://www.dailyo.in/lifestyle/relationships-being-single-marriage-sexuality-india-tradition-clubs/story/1/4795.html
Just when u cross 21 ... its a massive hunt ( just like CIA hunting for a fugitive) Every prospective fugitive 10 generation history is sort and discussed ... and finally with an eagle eye the fugitive is caught and tangled up ...
BUT THEN WHAT ABOUT THE SINGLETON ?? THEY ARE looked up as redheaded cocks
Every occasion and meeting ... you are asked the question when r u getting married ???
Stranger ( u have just met and exchanged) just ... hello how are you ? AND WITHIN SECONDS ...... u r asked the question arreee why r u not married ? no boyfriend ? u should get married ... its important to get married .. !!! One is automatically categorised as fiercely independent , ambitious , rigid and uncompromising , commitment phobic ... if one is not married .. soo many labels for one word !
Reallyyy ! my singleton is a global issue ! do I ask u why are u married ? why did u have babies ? why did u divorce when we just meet ... then who the hell has given u the right to ask me about my single status ...
U meet a guy on tinder .. u meet a guy/ girl in a party , puja etc etc ... one question why are u not married ?? state it ! earlier I just did not know the answer ... but lately I have found the reply ... bcos I am reducing global population .. and sometimes just to shock I like having multiple partners ... hah ha haha its a kodak moment .. the shocked expression of the other person ...
I have my moments of loneliness but don't we all .. but I Am glad that I am not in a relationship which is stale and painful ..
I enjoy my routine that I have created for my self .. but I do have ... a secret desire ... A desire to be loved and cherished ... BUT THEN DON'T WE ALL ... SO why being SINGLE is DIFFERENT ?
Some heart wrenching stories to share
http://www.storypick.com/heart-wrenching-story/
http://www.dailyo.in/lifestyle/relationships-being-single-marriage-sexuality-india-tradition-clubs/story/1/4795.html
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