I was watching an episode of sasural simar ka .... the bhabhi ( epitome of bharatya naari ) was screaming away at her sister in law that she has done paap by having sex before marriage .... ofcourse it was sharamnaak... Sex before maariage is paap .. sex after marriage is pavitra ! She has shamed her entire khandan ... TOTAL HIGH DRAMA
dhadaaaaaaaaaang..... there was the younger bhaabhi stops the elder bhaabhi by saying .... oosne koi paap naheen kiya oosne shaurya se chup chap shaadi kar lee... oosne koi paap naheen kee hain.... there u go everyhting is then legitimate !
What's with Indian television .... why are we so preachy and why do we lay so much of emphasis on sex .... RAPE AND SEX is sensationalised... is this the reason for rape becoming rampant in India ? We are so bent upon being the moral police that we forget to look into the depth of inculcating good values , morality , dicipline and ethics . Its a moral responsibility and your personal choice . Personally I have no definition of a committed and non committed relationship.. because I believe there is no in an out ... commitment starts from day zero in a relatiionship
Do not misunderstand .... I certainly do not carry the flag for free sex .. no niet .... I am not intersted in promoting that
What I want to promote is values and dicipline ... this is what will make us a better human being ... help us interact in a better way with people who effect our lives , our interactions with acquaintances and strangers ...
I would like to quote verbatim from one of the sites that gives you information about sex
dhadaaaaaaaaaang..... there was the younger bhaabhi stops the elder bhaabhi by saying .... oosne koi paap naheen kiya oosne shaurya se chup chap shaadi kar lee... oosne koi paap naheen kee hain.... there u go everyhting is then legitimate !
What's with Indian television .... why are we so preachy and why do we lay so much of emphasis on sex .... RAPE AND SEX is sensationalised... is this the reason for rape becoming rampant in India ? We are so bent upon being the moral police that we forget to look into the depth of inculcating good values , morality , dicipline and ethics . Its a moral responsibility and your personal choice . Personally I have no definition of a committed and non committed relationship.. because I believe there is no in an out ... commitment starts from day zero in a relatiionship
Do not misunderstand .... I certainly do not carry the flag for free sex .. no niet .... I am not intersted in promoting that
What I want to promote is values and dicipline ... this is what will make us a better human being ... help us interact in a better way with people who effect our lives , our interactions with acquaintances and strangers ...
I would like to quote verbatim from one of the sites that gives you information about sex
Values in Sexuality:
- Sexuality is a natural and healthy part of living.
- All persons are sexual.
- Sexuality includes physical, ethical, psychological and emotional dimensions.
- Individuals express their sexuality in varied ways. People should respect and accept diversity of values and beliefs about sexuality that exist in a community.
- All sexual decisions have effects and consequences.
- Sexual relationships should never be coercive, exploitative or lead to ill health.
- Sexual relationship is associated with honesty, equality, responsibility and social acceptance.
- Premature involvement of sexual behaviour poses risks.
- Abstaining from sexual intercourse is the most effective method of preventing pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases (STD) and HIV/AIDS infection.
- The society as well as children are benefited when they discuss sexuality with their parents, teachers or other trusted adults.
- No discrimination should be made on the basis of sex, culture, language, religion, caste or colour.
- Love is different from infatuation.
- All children should be loved and cared for.
- Men and women are equal, but they are different in respect of their sexuality.
- Men and women are not OPPOSITE sexes, but COMPLIMENTARY sexes.
- Menstruation is not a curse but a boon for motherhood.
- Nocturnal emission (in boys) and masturbation (in girls) are natural sexual outlets.
- Virginity is in the mind, not between two legs.
- Sex organs and their functions are natural and not “dirty.”
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